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Writer's pictureJody B. Miller

Raising Kids to Thrive in a Changing World


In today’s fast-paced, digital-driven society, parents face unique challenges. How do we help our children grow into confident, empathetic, and capable adults? Books like Raising Good Humans by Hunter Clarke-Fields and The Self-Driven Child by William Stixrud and Ned Johnson offer timeless advice, backed by science, for instilling values and fostering independence.

As a bestselling author and parenting advocate, I believe the main principles can be boiled down into three pillars: resilience, character, and success.


1. Cultivating Resilience: The Power of Grit

In her groundbreaking book Grit, Angela Duckworth highlights how perseverance, not just talent, is the hallmark of high achievers. Resilience isn’t about shielding our children from failure; it’s about teaching them to embrace challenges and see setbacks as opportunities for growth.


Practical Tips for Building Resilience:

  • Encourage a Growth Mindset: Praise effort, not just outcomes. Use phrases like, “I’m proud of how hard you worked on this,” instead of “You’re so smart.”

  • Teach Problem-Solving Skills: Allow your kids to brainstorm solutions when faced with difficulties rather than stepping in to fix the problem.

  • Model Resilience: Show your kids how you handle challenges by narrating your thought process and demonstrating perseverance.


2. Building Character: Empathy, Integrity, and Responsibility

Character is the foundation of lasting success and fulfillment. Books like The Whole-Brain Child by Daniel J. Siegel emphasize the importance of emotional intelligence, while How to Raise Kind Kids by Thomas Lickona highlights the role of empathy in developing well-rounded individuals.

Activities That Build Character:

  • Volunteer Together: Helping others teaches compassion and gratitude.

  • Promote Open Communication: Create a safe space where your kids feel comfortable expressing their feelings.

  • Set Clear Boundaries: Consistent rules and consequences help children understand accountability.


3. Defining Success: Academic and Beyond

Success isn’t one-size-fits-all. It’s essential to help children discover their unique strengths and passions. Books like The Gift of Failure by Jessica Lahey and Raising an Entrepreneur by Margot Machol Bisnow encourage parents to focus on intrinsic motivation and creativity over external validation.

Strategies for Encouraging Success:

  • Foster Curiosity: Introduce new hobbies, cultures, and experiences to help kids find what excites them.

  • Balance Structure and Freedom: Provide routines but also allow space for exploration and independence.

  • Celebrate Progress: Acknowledge small wins to build confidence and momentum.


A Holistic Approach to Parenting

Combining insights from research-backed books with practical strategies can create a powerful parenting toolkit. My book series, including The MISOGI Method and From Drift to Shift, explores personal growth and the mindset shifts needed to tackle life’s challenges—lessons that are just as applicable to parenting.

By instilling resilience, building character, and redefining success, we can empower our children to not just survive but thrive.


If you’re passionate about raising successful, college-bound kids while nurturing their personal growth, stay tuned for my upcoming course.


Stay tuned for more details, and let’s embark on this journey together to raise a generation of great kids!


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